In late 2018, I made a decision that would change everything. I decided to transform my life instead of simply existing in it. I went from being married to divorced. I went from living what I considered a traditional heterosexual lifestyle to allowing myself the freedom to embrace a more fluid LGBTQ+ life. I call it Soul Selecting, giving myself permission to connect, love, live, and evolve beyond the boxes society tries to put us in. That transformation didn’t stop with m