In late 2018, I made a decision that would change everything. I decided to transform my life instead of simply existing in it. I went from being married to divorced. I went from living what I considered a traditional heterosexual lifestyle to allowing myself the freedom to embrace a more fluid LGBTQ+ life. I call it Soul Selecting, giving myself permission to connect, love, live, and evolve beyond the boxes society tries to put us in. That transformation didn’t stop with my personal life. It